The rules about love and marriage

Here is something I read from a book, I think it’s quite true and useful, I wrote this specially to someone who is in dilemma in a relationship, hope this can help u.

“If you don’t respect the other person, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble. If you don’t know how to compromise, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble. If you can’t talk openly about what goes on between you, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble. And if you don’t have a common set of values in life, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble. Your values must be alike especially your belief in the importance of your marriage.”

“Love each other or perish” (Mitch Albom)

Grey Days

I’ve started to work in Kumon Centre last month. Since I start working and dear’s semester begins, we have less and less time together. At first, I quite enjoy working as a teacher but my nightmares started after those little evils knew that I’m good to bully. Kids nowadays are really different from our generation… ermm… not only kids, parents also the same. Most of the kids brought up by their personal maid ‘kakak’ while the parents busy working outside. These kids are really spoiled and they really have no respect to other people. I’ve seen kids scolding bad words to teachers, treat teachers like their kakak also, lying (they did most of the time), playful, ears too small to listen to advice, head too big to think that they’re the best. We teachers complained a lot to those parents but I’m really surprised that some of those parents don’t accept and don even care about it. This job is really stressful and challenging, there are a few teachers left already because they can’t cope with the stress anymore. And me, I slowly change from an angel teacher to an evil teacher. HaHaHa….

Today, dear is supposed to come to find me but… haiz…. I really miss you dear. The thing that I most enjoy everyday is to wait for u to come find me. And the thing that most motivate me to go work is u, after work I can meet u. when I know we can’t meet because of your assignments, tests and so on and so on again, I really felt extremely disappointed. Bad feelings like to visit me when u r not beside me. I really feel very bad today, really feel like crying whole day. Haiz…….

Happy Birthday Hoong!

Ok, this time its Chun Hoong's turn!
Yeah, i know, we're all broke.. hahaha.. anyways....

Happy Birthday! Stay pretty! XD Take care
Be happy and Friends forever!

See you tonight!

Jason and Cheilin

Happy Birthday Shuang!

Since i'm blogging right now, and i wanna go to bed soon.. i would like to...

Wish my lovely cousin and friend Li Shuang, Happy Birthday!
Stay healthy, happy, pretty and sexy! XD
Well, its's 11 o clock now. 1 more hour to your birthday. I wish that you would read this post. haha..
err.. don't know what to say anymore. So, Happy Birthday!
Enjoy and see you on friday!

Yung and Cheilin

Update finally!

Hey ya!
Its been such a long time since i logged in to post something. Been quite busy as my new semester starts already. I have Anatomy, Physiology 2, Cell Metabolism and DNA recombinant as my four core units. After nearly three weeks into the semester, i've realised how crazy this sem will be. For example, in Anatomy, we have to remember all the bones, muscles, blood vessels and neurons from head to toe. And trust me, you wouldn't wanna know how many layers of muscle we already have in our arm. That's only Anatomy. Cell metabolism is another killer paper, as said by the seniors. How dead... =(

Well, last week, i had a senior who comitted suicide and passed away. Its because of family pressure and he jumped from the 26th floor in a condo. Its kinda surprising and sad. The fella who was always smiling in the Microbiology lab and lecture - i never guessed he would end up doing this. My condolence to his family and friends. So, if you have anything in your heart, please talk to someone and do not do stupid things, alright?

Baby has been doing assignments these days.. and just completed it finally. I miss her as always and i'm glad that we meet this couple of days. Both of us are not feeling well - fever, flu, sore throat, cough. But we're feeling better now. And my baby is always here to take care of me and accompany me. Thank you sweety, i love you!

Signing off

Jason Lim

Bad Driving Day

Today was an ordinary day, woke up, do the usual stuffs, cabal, and wait for my baby. She couldn't make it early cause has to go to hospital to visit her lil' nephew who is admitted to hospital due to epilepsy. Ok, so she arrived and we ate lunch. Then we go out with friends to One Utama to watch Hancock. I would rate that movie 6.5/10 though.

Okay, back to the topic. On the way to 1U, Chun Hoong as always drives like a snake. Cut here cut there and doesn't bother looking behind for me. But this bad driving isn't bout Chun Hoong. There's a straight road and a T junction. So, there we were on the right lane and there was a few cars who wanted to turn right. So, we had to go back to the left lane. A Mercedes Benz behind me (quite a distance) quickly accelerate and doesn't wanna give way. But my car head is already out, so i just cut into that lane. Then this bastard just hon me for like 30 seconds. This type of person doesn't deserve to drive such a nice car. I do admit that i don't give way to people at times, but i don't hon them like that idiotic driver.

Next, there is this black Camry which drive pass my car trying to overtake me on my left and his car was just 1 inch beside my car (still on the way to 1U). It was in 1 lane. This person is stupidly crazy, whatever that means. If moved left a lil, i would have banged his car. Dammit.

Then on the way back from 1U, as i turn left into the main road, I saw an accident involving a motorcycle and a red kancil. CheiLin shouted so loudly that my heart almost flew out. The Kancil was stopping at the road side just after the turning. But the motorcycle man somehow did not see the car and just bang on the ass. The car has its lights on! I wonder where are that guy's eyes. However, the car shouldn't stop like that as well.

Back to my condo after baby left, i drove into the parking. As i was trying to turn in. this car illegally turned out from the parking entrance. Freaking shocked me, luckily i wasn't driving fast..

Conclusion is, people should be more ethical and patient and also to think about their own as well as others safety. Accidents can be avoided. I have witnessed 2 horrific accidents before - one which is recently when 2 motorbikes come together and there was blood everywhere, and the other at my old house where the woman flew out from the car into the drain with her intestine out from the abdomen. Scary huh? Honestly, i really don't like any advertisement from the government except for the no smoking and the road safety ones XD

Ok, that's all. Signing out now! Enjoy your western food people!

Jason Lim

Semester Break

Haven't been updating the blog for quite some time and sorry for that.
I am having my semester break now - 3 weeks or so. Its kinda boring cause my baby went to work on 2,4,6 (if u know what i mean). So, the remaining days would be me alone at home.
I've been playing online game and training up my new 'football team' on Winning Eleven (old old game on PS2). The hot online game now is Cabal Online. Since me and Nicholas played, we have been trying to convince everyone to join in our Cabal Mania. Hoong and my baby firstly were anti-cabal members. But now, it's like 180 degrees change. My baby reach level 30 in like, 4 days *impressed*. Ok, enough of Cabal - maybe i'll post more in the next post.

I miss you baby.. i miss you alot lovely.. arrhh! Feel so worried about you when you're working.. Seeing you so stressed makes me so worried. Take care, i love you so much! MuaaakSsss!
i hope you take time to check our blog and don't be too addicted to Cabal =P

Jason Lim